This was a topic that was suggested by a friend of mine. I’m actually interested in seeing what type of comments that I may get from this. I happened to talk to a lot of people about this subject and the obvious answer was to shave. That’s what everyone is doing nowadays, whether it’s a bald eagle, a Mohawk, or something in between.
Whatever happened to being natural and having “The Bush” (as some men call it) down there? It seems that the younger generations gravitate more towards the Brazilians and bare cuts, while the older generations prefer the afros, trims, or bikini cuts.
A poll that was given on one hundred men showed that: 48% said, “Yes get rid of it all.” 29% said they preferred it natural. 16% said they would like to see a little hair. 7% said that they would like it to have more hair than normal.
Although it’s not believed that either decision benefits the woman, each has pros and cons. Shaving the pubic area has its own risks. That area can get dirty and full of bacteria, and if there’s a cut, then that cut is likely to get infected. Ingrown hairs are infections, and they’re very uncomfortable. The skin down there is sensitive, and prone to razor burn. Stubble is worse there than it is on the legs. Waxing is safer, but if not done properly, can cause an infection…especially if the parlors are using unsanitary equipment! So proceed with caution.
A little history on shaving: It’s believed that it originated with prostitutes back in the 1940s. Prostitutes would shave to show their profession. It then became more mainstream in the late 1980s and 1990s with the porn industry.
Just remember that the hair down there does serve a purpose. The texture is meant to trap dirt and bacteria, and keep it out of the vagina. A lot of people think this is gross and the hair should be removed to maintain personal hygiene, but if there’s no hair for all that dirt to get trapped in, it can get inside the vagina and cause infections. So you have to think about what you would rather deal with: hair or an infection? Pubic hair also forms an air pocket to keep the area cool. Without that air pocket, that area can get moist and sweaty, and allow yeast to grow. Another purpose of pubic hair is to give off pheromones, which are supposed to help a woman attract a mate. Sex can feel a little lacking without those natural pheromones.
Due to health risks, some women decide to trim. Trimming can be a good, happy medium. It can make oral sex easier, and can make that time of the month a little neater, but it’s not as risky to her health.
To many women, their pubic hair is what separates them from the girls. It’s womanly, mature, and natural. It should be her decision if she wants to trim it, wax it, shave it all, or leave it alone. It shouldn’t be her partner’s choice.
Tags: pubic hair, shave
Ummm due to the nature of this post I won’t use my name LMAO. I tried to shave it all off a few times out of curiousity and ummm when the hair grew back in it was horrible!! The stubble itched so bad and was so uncomfortable I found my hand drifting down there trying to scratch in inappropriate situations like in face to face conversations LOL. I would run to the bathroom scratching with such a ferocity, you would think I had something! So yeah I stay au naturale and fresh. Though there is ahem…hair its never funky so I think its an assumption alot of people have.
Natural works best for me, and it puzzles me why women so readily accept another body image issue. So if it makes any difference to you, I think natural is sexy; shaved or waxed looks like a porn star, an 8-year old, or a plucked chicken.
As natural as I am with the hair on my head, I couldn’t possibly be natural down below. It’s SO uncomfortable to me, especially in the summer time! It’s never uncomfortable for me to shave it all off though, no weird after shaving itching or razor bumps so i’m completely fine with it.
Living in FL it’s almost not sanitary to be at least trimmed. But there are a lot of women that are au naturale in every sense but the hair on there head! Me personally I trim. Shaving too down there was a nightmare. Then I found some shave minimizing lotion and I don’t even really have to trim. I’m not conforming to any standard of beauty it’s a personal choice.
I use Magic Shave Cream – Sensitive Skin. The one in the men’s shaving aisle. No razor burn and a smooth playing surface. For those that want to try it, I recommend doing a test patch before slathering it on. Although it says sensitive skin, some people may still experience ‘fire in the hole.’
i profess to the low fade option. i don’t shave it ALL off – too… pubescent. and really, the hair down there grows just as quickly and densely as the hair upstairs, so tout naturel is not EVEN a consideration.
I’m completely bare by my own choice. I’ve been doing some form of hair removal since I was in Jr. High School. Why? Because I just like the way it looks, it feels better, cleaner, and again I like it.
Shaving is horrible! Very painful and I have hair like a porky pine (sp?) I’ve waxed myself for years, but as of late I’ve gotten very lazy and went back to dipliatories. As much as I hate to use the stuff it is quick, easy, and gets the job done. Also, in this economy I can’t afford to have it done professional once a month. Like I said I can wax myself but I have messed up the counter, floor, and a few bathroom rugs in the years I used to wax myself.
I say do what makes you happy. Also, if you have a partner and they have a preference be open and hear them out. Compromising isn’t a horrible thing. Actually, I prefer a man who takes the same care for his personal hygience in that area as I do.
No way I can not do waxing. Did it once and never again. I felt like my skin was literally on fire from it. I will stick to shaving.