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Sisterlocks: “The Key to Acceptable Locs?”

Monday, February 15th, 2010

Sisterlocks are becoming an increasingly popular method of locking for those making the transition from loose natural hair to locs, or from relaxed hair to locs. Many naturals would agree that anything which releases a woman from the perpetual relaxer cycle is a positive thing. However, the division in the loc community over Sisterlocks, very similar to the split between naturals and relaxed women, for those of you who are unfamiliar, I will explain what Sisterlocks are:

• Sisterlocks is trademarked method and name, originally developed by Dr. Jo-Anne Cornwell.

• Sisterlocks, even in their largest size are extremely small in comparison to traditional locs.

• Sisterlocks can be started on both relaxed and natural hair, and is a particularly popular method for locking relaxed hair. The hair should be at least 3 inches or longer.

• Sisterlocks should be started and maintained by a trained, certified “Sisterlock consultant”, or a trainee. The installation can take anywhere from 10 hours to a few days. This depends on hair density, length, and skill of the consultant. I cannot explain specifically how the technique works, because of the trademark.However Sisterlock wears say that it is similar to interlocking.

• Sisterlocks generally range from 300-1000+ dollars in price depending on hair length, and the consultant. Often you can get a better deal by using a trainee. The new locs should be maintained every 4-6 weeks by a consultant or a re-tightening training class can be taken, so one can maintain them on their own.

• Sisterlocks also have their own line of products, but a wearer is not limited to them.

• Sisterlocks are marketed toward those who want micro-sized locs, which can be styled like relaxed hair, and have the appearance of relaxed hair.

This is just a brief overview of the Sisterlocks method, for those interested; I suggest visiting www.sisterlocks.com/ and checking out www.youtube.com for Sisterlock vloggers.

Regardless of how one begins their locs, or whether or not they have some brand name associated with them, locs are shed hair that has been allowed to tangle and mat together. The method makes no difference other than in aesthetics. What matters is the attitude of the wearer, and this is where controversy comes in with various loc methods, particularly Sisterlocks. Sisterlocks are marketed as an alternative to both relaxed hair and to traditional locs.

I have seen many consultants around the web, that present Sisterlocks as a way to have “nice” locs, and Sisterlock forums where members are very strict about maintaining the sanctity of Sisterlocks, and are not very friendly with those who have less than a certain number of locs. Or those who do not use the product line. Perhaps, the biggest gripe traditional loc wearers seem to have is that some Sisterlock wearers, claim that Sisterlocks are not dreadlocks, and don't want them to be associated with dreadlocks. I'm happy to repeat myself when I say a loc is a loc is a loc. It does not matter whether someone spent twelve plus hours and hundreds of dollars to get them done, its a loc, just like the person who spent sixty dollars and two hours to get them done, or went the DIY route.

It has also been suggested that Sisterlocks are more acceptable as compared to traditional locs because of their appearance and the fact that they mimic relaxed hair very well. Conversely, traditional locs are much more acceptable in the society and in the work place these days, than they were previously. Frankly, I could spend another few paragraphs explaining every single problem that some traditional loc wearers have with some Sisterlock wearers, however my effort would be fruitless.

What has been deemed controversy between Sisterlocks and traditional locs is really does not have to made into such a dispute. It seems that people cannot enjoy anything without trying to create some division within it. If a person has the money to spend and wants Sisterlocks, then it is their prerogative to obtain them, regardless of their motive, regardless of whether or not they started with relaxed hair, regardless of whether or not they think Sisterlocks are somehow better than traditional locs.

I have seen many threads in the hair forums start with a simple question about Sisterlocks and turn into page and pages of arguing. While some Sisterlocks wearers might subscribe to believing they are better than other locs, how are they any different from a natural thinking they are better than a perm wearer? Also, there are plenty of traditional loc wearers with their own issues. There are those who believe that their locs are more "real" because they started with no product, or they started with a loctitcian or a tool, or free-formed.

There will always be those people who have to believe they are somehow better than another person who is doing the same thing, and this pertains to all areas of life, not just locs. So, if you are a hair board user, particularly a locked user, next time you end an argument with a Sisterlocks wearer with the famous, “to each their own” line, mean it! If you are a traditional loc wearer, put yourself in their shoes.  Imagine how you would feel if you were berated for your loc choices. I'm not insinuating that you should not correct someone if they attack your loc choices, or imply that their locs are somehow better than yours. However, I am saying that you should do your best not to be that person.

Disclaimer: This article was not meant to degrade Sisterlocks or Traditional locs, and is based purely on self-observation.

Miss Nappturality 2010: Teesha

Monday, February 15th, 2010

America's Next Top Natural Model

Teesha Borum doesn't look a day over 21 and has what it takes to be a model.  Since 2008, Going Natural has thrown the Miss Nappturality Contest, a contest designed to find the most intriguing natural of the year.   This year, the contest was sponsored by the Cowrie Shell Center,  Groganics, Jamaican Mango & Lime, My Butter Love, Nu Ade, Nogozi Design, Ododo Originals, and Sula NYC.  The contest consisted of nine challenges where each contestant submitted an essay and a set of photos that showcased their trendy hair styles in accordance to the rules of each challenge.  Although I'm sure many of the contestants gave it their all, there was definitely one of the bunch who was definitely in it to win it;  Teesha Borum.

AG:  Tell us about yourself.
My name is Teesha Borum. I am a 29 year old San Diego native.  I moved to Atlanta, GA almost three years ago to pursue acting/modeling in a black market. I love the beach, watching movies at home, eating good food, and laughing with friends and family.

AG:  What made you want to become a model?
I was drawn to pursuing acting, but when I moved to Atlanta, I guess I realized how acting and modeling go hand in hand. That is what makes modeling so fun to me! I can become Model Tee. Although I've tried doing a photo shoot or two in the past, I really started modeling when I moved to Atlanta almost three years ago…

AG:  Who supported you for your modeling career?
I am blessed to have close friends, my boyfriend and family that support me! My family in particular has never discouraged my efforts. It is important to have people in your corner.

AG:  How did you learn about the America's Top Natural Model contest?
My friend Tashani told me about the contest. She is going natural and happened to visit the website and saw the contest. She called me and said, "Girl, go to www.going-natural.com! I can see you winning this competition!"

AG: What made you decide to enter the America's Top Natural Model contest?
I entered because I wanted to promote the beauty of natural hair. Its great to see black women confident in how they are made! I also thought it would be great exposure for my modeling pursuits, which it has been.

AG: How did you feel when you found out you won?
I was really excited! It was a nine-week competition and all of us worked so hard. I'm thankful that the hard work paid off.

AG:  Tell us your hair story.
I have been natural for almost 6 years now. I never thought I would go natural, but when it came close to graduating college, I felt like making a change. I wore braids for a couple of months and cut my hair down to the new growth and began my journey. It suddenly felt right.

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AG:  What is your hair regimen?
Unfortunately, I didn't have a regimen for most of my journey, but have become more and more concerned with using natural products for my hair. I realized how stress and diet can take a toll on the health of our hair. Because of the hair loss I experienced and still am recovering from, I have come to learn the importance of stimulating our scalp rather than "washing our hair." I will soon start making my natural shampoos for friends and family to see how it helps them; but the key components are to reduce stress, revamp our diet and reinvigorate our scalp! Be on the look out for Reciprocitee!

AG:  What advice would you give someone who has aspirations of becoming a model?
My advice is to figure out your strengths and get in where you fit in. The worst thing you can do is waste time and energy trying to gain recognition in a market that doesn't suit you. Once you narrow down what you want, then get an agent that will prayerfully be a good fit for you. I'm still learning myself…

AG:  Where would you like to take your craft in the future?
I would like to have a solid career doing commercials and print modeling. I look in magazines and commercials and think "That should be me!" It will be…I'm making progress.

Healthy Afros

Monday, February 1st, 2010

Healthy Afros

It wasn’t long ago when someone wearing an Afro was looked upon as a rebel, militant feminist and/or a revolutionary. In the rise of natural hairstyles, the Afro aka ‘Natural’ fashionably called, ‘TWA’ (teenie-weenie-afro) and ‘Puff’ has made a comeback. Today, there are several models, singers and entertainers who sport Afros, real or fake as a hairstyle.

When the Afro first emerged as a mainstream hairstyle in the mid-60s/early 70s I’m sure many Afro wearers experienced hair breakage/hair loss because of the lack of resources on maintaining natural hair (i.e. how-to hair care literature, products, tools, etc). Today, we have all those sources and more at our fingertips.

Although the Afro is considered to be a low-maintenance hairstyle, it requires just the same attention and care as other natural styles. Several images from the late 60s and mid 70s depict Afro wearers using an Afro pick (picture the ones with the fist on the end) to detangle their fros. I remember watching reruns of the television show Good Times and seeing J.J. and/or Michael Evans picking out their Afros and patting them into shape. Others even used electric picks to detangle their Afros.

Most often the teeth or prongs of the picks were not wide, which would surely cause breakage, and although some of the pics were made with wide teeth, they also had sharp pointed ends which are definetly not good for the scalp. Also, these Afro wearers would pick their hair throughout the day to keep their desired shape, and the picking would be done on dry hair. The Afro back then also suffered from lack of moisture. Petroleum/mineral oil based sheens with added ‘cones’ (dimethicone, cyclomethicone) gave the appearance of a soft, moisturized Afro, but robbed the hair of moisture which also causes breakage.

I couldn’t imagine how those Afro wearers maintained their hair while they slept. Even using a satin cap while they slept would ruin the shape of the Afro, and it would have to be re-picked each and every morning. Although I’m sure many opted to braid their hair at night which would have been helpful in stretching their hair to reach the fullest Afro potential, but again the detangle/braid at night and pick out every morning routine would have also taken a toll on their hair.

I also wonder how often these Afro wearers washed their hair. The style was to have a big, fluffy Afro not a shrunken wash-n-go, so I’m certain some of these Afro wearers avoided water whenever possible. Following this maintenance routine of dry picking, braiding and detangling daily, avoiding water and standing under chemical fog doses of Afro sheen, it’s no wonder why early Afro wearers would have experienced hair breakage/hair loss.

As mentioned previously, thankfully today we have many more resources than the Afro wearers of the mid 60s and early 70s. To maintain an Afro, TWA, or Puff today, we know that moisture is the key, especially when it comes to detangling. A trusty water bottle filled with essential oil and/or a little conditioner is all that is needed to detangle. And detangling daily is not necessary at all since chunky or textured Afros are also stylish.

We also know that the daily use of petroleum/mineral oil and ‘cone’ based products should be kept to a minimum if even used at all. These products should be replaced with ones that are water based and/or contain natural essential oils and butters. Weekly/bi-weekly washing and conditioning is a must to maintain healthy hair. Scalp massages with essential oils also aid in the overall health of hair. It is not necessary to braid each and every night. If you are braiding to ‘stretch’ your Afro or even to give it more texture, braid once at the beginning of the week.

At night it is best to use a silk or satin cap or pillow case, to avoid loose hairs from being snagged and pulled out due to friction on harsher materials such as cotton. Of course, no matter what you do while you sleep your Afro will lose it’s shape, but instead of picking it out dry hop in the shower and let the spray moisturize your hair.

Once your hair is moisturized from the shower spray add a little of your water/natural oil or butter based product to seal in the moisture. Then if needed, style with your fingers instead of using a pick. If for some reason this is not an option and you feel you must detangle to style then do so while your hair is still moist using a wide tooth comb, starting from the ends then working toward your roots.

For the finishing touch you can then use a technique from the back-in-the-day Afro wearers and ‘pat’ into place

Afro pics and info: History of the Pick, Afro Obsession Pics, Sexy Afro Pics

To Shave or Not to Shave: Staying Natural Down There

Monday, February 1st, 2010

To Shave or Not to Shave This was a topic that was suggested by a friend of mine. I'm actually interested in seeing what type of comments that I may get from this. I happened to talk to a lot of people about this subject and the obvious answer was to shave. That’s what everyone is doing nowadays, whether it’s a bald eagle, a Mohawk, or something in between.

Whatever happened to being natural and having “The Bush” (as some men call it) down there? It seems that the younger generations gravitate more towards the Brazilians and bare cuts, while the older generations prefer the afros, trims, or bikini cuts.

A poll that was given on one hundred men showed that: 48% said, "Yes get rid of it all." 29% said they preferred it natural. 16% said they would like to see a little hair. 7% said that they would like it to have more hair than normal.

Although it's not believed that either decision benefits the woman, each has pros and cons. Shaving the pubic area has its own risks. That area can get dirty and full of bacteria, and if there's a cut, then that cut is likely to get infected. Ingrown hairs are infections, and they're very uncomfortable. The skin down there is sensitive, and prone to razor burn. Stubble is worse there than it is on the legs. Waxing is safer, but if not done properly, can cause an infection…especially if the parlors are using unsanitary equipment! So proceed with caution.

A little history on shaving: It's believed that it originated with prostitutes back in the 1940s. Prostitutes would shave to show their profession. It then became more mainstream in the late 1980s and 1990s with the porn industry.

Just remember that the hair down there does serve a purpose. The texture is meant to trap dirt and bacteria, and keep it out of the vagina. A lot of people think this is gross and the hair should be removed to maintain personal hygiene, but if there's no hair for all that dirt to get trapped in, it can get inside the vagina and cause infections. So you have to think about what you would rather deal with: hair or an infection? Pubic hair also forms an air pocket to keep the area cool. Without that air pocket, that area can get moist and sweaty, and allow yeast to grow. Another purpose of pubic hair is to give off pheromones, which are supposed to help a woman attract a mate. Sex can feel a little lacking without those natural pheromones.

Due to health risks, some women decide to trim. Trimming can be a good, happy medium. It can make oral sex easier, and can make that time of the month a little neater, but it's not as risky to her health.

To many women, their pubic hair is what separates them from the girls. It's womanly, mature, and natural. It should be her decision if she wants to trim it, wax it, shave it all, or leave it alone. It shouldn’t be her partner’s choice.

The Natural Hair Waves (Natural Hair Then and Now)

Monday, January 18th, 2010

In the 1900s, natural hair wearers started to straighten their natural tresses for many reasons, whether it was the belief that straighter hair was more manageable, or economic/mobility reasons (i.e. get into better schools and/or obtain better jobs, or simply to look ‘hip’).  During this time, the ‘conk’ made with potatoes, eggs, and lye became a popular method for men to straighten their hair. The women wore press-n-curl type styles such as curls combed into waves or pageboys.

In the mid 1900s, black entertainers began to wear short un-straightened styles such as Muhammad Ali formerly Cassius Clay, and Isaac Hayes who sported the bald look. Also, Malcolm X and the Nation of Islam began teaching that whites had taught blacks to hate themselves by convincing them that all things African, kinky hair included, were bad.

These teachings along with the rise of nationalists, integrationists and the Civil Rights Movement in the 1960s and early 1970s, gave birth to The Black Power Movement, which emphasized racial pride. Through this movement, the creation of black political and cultural institutions began to flourish focusing on promoting and advancing black collective interests, values and culture. For many during this era, wearing an Afro, represented freedom from white oppression.

The movement primarily responsible for the Afro’s popularity is the "Black is Beautiful" movement. The "Black is Beautiful" movement encouraged blacks to feel good about how they looked, and attempted to undue the notion that their natural traits were ugly. It encouraged black women and men to embrace their natural features, by stop straightening their hair, and attempting to lighten or bleach their skin.

Although along with wearing the Afro, this new generation of natural hair wearers also wore cornrows, braids and headwraps called gelees, many still wore straight styles and the chemical straightener businesses was still in stride. By the early 70s, the Black Power movement began to lose momentum, and the Afro was no longer a political statement, but became just a hairstyle; it could be seen everywhere on whites and blacks alike.

A half century later, natural hair again is on the rise. Although many suggest it’s just a passing phase like the Afro worn in the mid-60s and early 70s, wearing ones hair natural has been synonymous with Vegetarianism and Going Green. Unlike the 1900s, today’s natural hair wearers range from Super models, college professors and CEOs. And likewise, they wear their hair natural for various reasons, they could be political, a resurgence of embracing ones natural beauty, consciousness of the dangers of chemical straighteners, overall health, or just as a style.

But for whatever reason, locs, twists, TWAs (teenie-weenie-afros), bantu knots, freeform and curly fros, and cornrowed styles can be spotted everywhere from the clubs to corporate settings. True-life horror stories of chemical burns and permanent hair loss, as well as scientific studies on the dangers of chemical straighteners have enlightened many who have pledged to wear their hair in it’s natural state, both black and whites alike.

Today’s natural hair wearers have many more resources available as well such as more natural based styling aids, how-to books and videos, and hundreds of styles to choose from to help them maintain their natural hair. For these reasons, unlike the passing phase of the Afro – today’s natural hairstyles instead of fading are here to stay.

Source:  Hair Story : Untangling the Roots of Black Hair in America Ayana Byrd and Lori L. Tharps

I'm a Barbie Girl!

Monday, January 18th, 2010

I know that for some, loving yourself can be really hard to do in the age of the plastic Barbie. However, one trying to live up to an image that they can never achieve naturally will cause more harm than good. It's ok if a person likes to switch things up every now and then just for fun (without all the extremes), but when one goes through drastic measures to get a new, permanent identity other than their own, it doesn't sound like much fun. It can be both mentally damaging and expensive.  It's quite alarming when I see beautiful people lose themselves and fall victim to this fight. Some fall victim to it for a brief period, others fall victim to it for a lifetime.

I'm sure you've seen it one time or another; women who got plastic surgeries that f!@#ed up their bodies up for life ending up on some talk show or  on some TLC documentary to warn everyone of the dangers of plastic surgery; women who end up dying as a result of trying to make their butts bigger; or bionic women who can only feel beautiful when they have a countless amount of add-ons that they try and pass off as theirs, so that they can call themselves "barbie." What makes me angry is that when I see the "before" images of these women, they're often the pretty girl next door and I can't find a single thing wrong with them.  Different races of women all falling victim.

I had a friend who fell victim to this.  She was a brown-eyed, brown-skinned girl; similar to my features. In fact, we looked so much alike that people thought we were sisters.   We discussed the whole black female image thing, the features that are favored more, and how some try to live up to something that they're not.  She was a plain Jane and wasn't with all the artificial stuff (or so I thought).  However as time passed, she complained about how it seemed like more black men were ditching darker black women for artificial women, lighter-skinned black women, multi-cultural women, or women of a completely different race more than usual.

One day we were chatting on the phone and she brought up how she bought some cream that would even out her skin tone and I was asking, "Are you sure it's not bleach?" and she assured me that it wasn't. Then weeks later, I look at her profile to see her wearing this silly Beyonce-type wig and gray eye contacts. (Basically doing everything she once looked down on.)  However, this wasn't what made me yell to myself, "WHAT THE HELL?" the most. What shocked me the most was how she made the photo black and white and added like 50% contrast to it to make herself come off as even lighter. I could barely even recognize her and had to recheck the profile link to make sure I was looking at the right page.

What was once the features of a beautiful, brown skinned woman, turned into one huge, wannabe mess. I'm over here thinking, "WHAT on earth are you doing?  You're not #FFFFFF. You're #000000."  She looked like she just walked off the set of the movie White Chicks. It looked like she was covered in volcano ash; like, straight out of Pompeii. Damn, I didn't know that there were any survivors living today. I wanted to put her body on display at a museum; it was just that freakish. Luckily, it didn't last forever and she eventually toned it down a bit, although she picked up the habit of being a frequent wig-wearer who tried her best to not let her male companions discover that the hair wasn't really growing out of her scalp.

I often see different groups of women claiming that other groups of women want to be like them, but both groups have fallen to the superficial crap, us black women included. (If we're doing it, why can't others?) What's even more alarming is seeing brown sisters bleach themselves.Why not make it easier and just Sammy Sosa yourself? Just skinny dip in a pool of skin bleach head-first, and call it a day. (I really don't want you to do that, you know that, right?)

To women who are black, dark, light, skinny, big, short, tall, and so on, you're beautiful. There is no need for all the drastic changes, but we go and make these huge changes that covers up the beauty we have. Then we have the nerve to act like it's apart of our DNA. Can we say, "DENIAL?" We can't expect others to like us if we don't like ourselves. The more we take on the role of excepting the features that make us beautiful, the more everyone else will.  There's no need for us to blend in with the crowd; we should stand out like the beauties that we are.

You're not #FFFFFF. You're #000000.