There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting the finer things in life. Too often we allow ourselves to be consumed with bills and the day to day hustle and bustle that we fail to realize how overdue we are for a much deserved treat. Though splurging is warranted on occasion, there are moments when we’re all faced with the adrenaline rush of impulsive buying.
Fashionista, a term used to refer to the hottest trend setters is one that is looked upon as endearing and admirable by many. However; for those looking to gain such an impressive title, the challenge can become demanding and not to mention expensive. While having name brand fashions and various material items are viewed as status symbols by some, such opinions are often fueled by fashion driven shows which reflect well dressed individuals leading glamorous lifestyles. Reality shows like Real Housewives and The Hills are just a couple of examples that lead an individual to think it is normal to drop thousands of dollars during a single shopping spree. But for the average Jo (Ann), such expenses are far from reality and can weigh heavily on one’s bank account.
Undoubtedly, looking good brings about positive feelings in the manner we view ourselves and in the way we hope others perceive us as well. Though many may consider fashionistas and frivolous spenders to be one in the same, such comparisons are merely a matter of opinion. Nevertheless, the key to defining one’s personal intent when shopping is to ask yourself; why am I making this purchase. As mentioned previously, there is nothing at all wrong with sensible shopping sprees. However, robbing Peter to pay Paul is never a good look. Therefore, prioritizing is essential to resisting temptation and acting strictly upon impulse.
Wants and needs are clearly two different things, and though a fabulous clutch or a pair of sexy stilettos may not fall into the need category the decision comes down to simple math. Are the items affordable according to your budget? If money is no object, then by all means go for the gusto. On the other hand, if your Benjamins aren’t as plentiful as you would like them to be; finding a bargain elsewhere may be more suitable. For those looking to economize and minimize or avoid overpriced spending; forming new routines can be easy and inexpensive.
Browse discount department stores: Department stores such as Marshalls and TJ Maxx are staples for many. Name brand items are plentiful and a lot less expensive. Such stores are proof that you don’t have to spend your lifesavings to look like a million bucks.
Second hand shops rock: Believe it or not vintage stores are all the rage. Items such as clothing, jewelry, shoes and even furniture are just waiting to be embellished with a personal touch. Without a doubt, old and new alike can be found in thrift shops at prices that are sure to please.
Take inventory of what you already have: Cleaning out your closet can reveal many treasures. When purchasing items at alarming rates things are often put away without a second glance. So to avoid paying for the same item twice take stock of what you have regularly.
Buy timeless pieces: A little black dress and classic pumps are just a few items that stand the test of time. If expensive purchases are made just make sure the item is worth it. Things such as detail and material determine the value of items, therefore; shop for quality not quantity.
Spread the wealth: In the process of cleaning out a closet, you just may realize that you no longer want or need some things. Donate unwanted clothing and shoes to area shelters and churches if possible.
Sleep on it: Shopping can literally be an adrenaline rush, so shopping on impulse can lead to regret and inevitably debt. It’s a good idea to wait 24 hours before making big purchases. After much consideration you may realize that you no longer want the item.
True fashionistas don’t follow the rules they make them, and regardless of what you have or have not spent on your latest outfit remember that you make the clothes. So when it comes to the dos and don’ts of your closet, make decisions that will not only lead to temporary enjoyment but everlasting fulfillment. Doing so can help you re-evaluate not only your budget but your happiness as well.
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The second hand shop thing is a GREAT idea, as it’s the most inexpensive place to buy clothes. I have a bad habit of not buying the used clothes from there though because I’m always wanting to know the exact history of my clothing. I don’t know what the previous owner has been doing in it before I bought it, what happened to them in the clothing before I bought it, or the different fluids that could have gotten on it. Even if it has been washed out thoroughly, I just can’t do it.
Sometimes, they have a collection of items that were taken from stores that have been closed down though. The other day, I was at a peddler’s mall that was selling an collection of unused sundresses for $1.99.
It does help to take inventory of what you have. You don’t realize how much you have until you thoroughly go through the clothes in your room and in the attic. There are some clothes and accessories that were probably used once and had no use afterwards. You realized there was no need to keep it. It helps to see what you have because it tells you not to buy more than you need.